My story.
My perspective.
I understand how challenging life can be!
My story.
Once there was a little girl growing up in a family that didn't want her. She didn't feel loved or accepted so she changed herself to try to please them. The message she got was that she didn't matter, and she believed it. So, as you'd expect, she grew into an adult who believed she had to earn love but never really believed that she had done enough to secure love. She felt alone, like there was no place she would ever belong. By the time she was in her 30's, she was exhausted, anxious, and occasionally depressed. She asked God, "What's wrong with me?", and He answered. "You don't really believe that anybody has ever loved you, and you are working to earn something that is already yours". Over the next few years, with hard work and some very painful realizations, she partnered with God to heal and change. She is now her real self and has the freedom to make her own choices, with no obligation or duty. She's not perfect, but she no longer lives with chronic pain.
You were little once; do you know what happened to you?
You want to know why life feels so hard; you struggle with anxiety, can't say 'no', have significant stress, are always on high-alert, and don't feel deeply connected to anyone, even if you're married. You know that there has got to be something better but you don't know how to get it.
It has been through suffering that I have seen the faithfulness of God. Now that I am healed, I can say that my life experiences have built things into my character that could have come in no other way and I am grateful for that.
Your suffering is also not without purpose. There will be meaning in it, but you need to heal in order to reveal that meaning.
I provide counselling from my Christian values and beliefs. I understand life's challenges and how difficult it is to change. I have been there, to those dark, hard places where you wonder what’s wrong and if there’s help for you. There is! Just like there was help for me, there is help for you. I am so glad you are here.
I specialize in counselling women with their unique issues and offer two types of counselling: traditional mental health therapy and integrated mental/physical health therapy. Obligation, people-pleasing, relationship stress, weight, and menopause are common themes. I counsel from an attachment perspective, helping people understand that for many, the way they altered themselves in childhood is not in the past, it has become their way of being in the world and is at work today.
I also provide couple counselling and help with parenting issues.
I believe that one of our deepest longings as human beings is to be authentically known, loved, and accepted. You may feel like you are unravelling, but God can restore you. Someone helped me and I would like to help you.
There's always a place for you on my couch; you can find healing and freedom.
Currently accepting only women and couples.
When we learn to move through suffering, rather than avoid it, then we greet it differently. We become willing to let it teach us. We even begin to see how God can use it for some larger end.
Henri Nouwen
My perspective.
I see life through the lens of faith. It is the only worldview possible for believers. I believe that the Bible is true and it tells us that we are holistic creatures, not a spirit with a body, but a spirit, and a body, and a will, and emotions, all integrated .
Perhaps one of the most important scriptures on this topic is Genesis 1:27 which says that we are created in the 'imago Dei', the image of God, and God declared all that he had made 'very good'. That has not changed, our bodies have not become bad or irrelevant. Our value as human beings comes from the fact that we are created in the image of God.
That includes women! I believe, and have experienced, that the church has struggled with its messaging to women. Possibly the most damaging involves anger, and they way anger has been characterized as only negative. In fact, the feeling of anger is not a sin, only angry behaviour can become sinful. Anger is a protection! It is that feeling that rises up inside of us and tells us that something it happening to us that is not okay. Women have been taught to deny this feeling, stuff it down, minimize it, rationalize it, and do almost anything except act on it. This causes unspeakable damage to our whole self; body, mind, and spirit. Ephesians 4:26 clearly says that the feeling of anger is normal and expected, it's the fact that we often lack kindness, gentleness, and self-control in our response that gets us into trouble. I help women figure out why they believe they must deny this feeling, how to recognize the feeling in the moment, and how to act on it properly. That alone is life-changing.
My passion is to help people know who God is and who they are in Him.

Ephesians 4:25-27
Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbour, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.

My Approach
- I approach counselling from a relational perspective because God created us to be in relationship, first with him, then with others, and finally, with his creation.
- With a few tweaks, attachment theory is completely compatible with a Christian worldview
- I believe that one of our deepest longings as human beings is to be known and loved, and counselling can be a safe place to begin the journey toward healthy and soul-satisfying relationships.
- My focus includes a recognition of the deep connection between our mind and body with a focus on holistic health.
For those who are interested, here are my qualifications.
Credentials
Canadian Certified Counsellor
Master of Arts in Counselling with Honours from Providence Theological Seminary
Bachelor of Arts in Counselling and Ministry from Alberta Bible College
Additional training
Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level One Training
Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship
Circle of Security Facilitator Training
Special Interests
Women's Issues
Holistic Counselling-integration of mind, body, and spirit.
Spiritual Abuse

